Last Updated on December 20, 2024 by Kelly Ashley

 

How To Harness The Law Of Attraction (& How I Manifested My Twin Flame)

 

Manifesting can be the most wonderful, exciting, peak experience. There is NOTHING in the world like seeing your dreams become reality right before your very eyes. It can feel so incredible that you need to pinch yourself multiple times just to be sure you’re not dreaming…

Manifesting can also be irritating and frustrating. It can make you angry and bitter and the king or queen of the pity committee… when you’re doing it wrong. I know this because I used to be the queen of mine. I spent 4 years trying everything possible to manifest my twin flame (a twin flame is the other energetic half of your soul and your GREATEST love). I tried all sorts of manifesting techniques: meditating, invoking, praying, shamelessly begging and bargaining with the Universe. I tried clearing my ‘stuff’, burning soul mate candles, purifying my body, calling for him in my mind (I may have gotten a little crazy in the process) and using angel cards and psychics to tell me what I wanted to hear. They kept telling me that he was there waiting, and that we’d be united some day.

It wasn’t too long before I was feeling seriously bitter. Someday wasn’t soon enough. Why wasn’t the Universe listening to me? Why was it refusing my happiness? What had I done to deserve this and why did nothing ever work out for me?! (and so, the first committee meeting began). I was angry. In fact, I was furious. Why did the Universe want me to suffer in this way? I couldn’t understand it at all. I couldn’t see that I was stuck in the vibration of being a VICTIM.

But you know, the Universe will always give you what you want. It gave me plenty of experiences and relationships to allow me to KEEP being a victim, because that’s the energy I was sending out, that was the story I was telling myself. I didn’t know the rules of manifesting, or how it really worked so I unknowingly kept myself in a perpetual cycle of lack, hurt and disempowerment. If only I had understood then what I understand now, I could have saved myself a LOT of time, energy and upset.

Here are a few key rules that you need to know about manifesting and the law of attraction…

 

The Universe WILL Give You What You Want

The Universe will absolutely give you what you want – its the LAW of the Universe – just like gravity is a truth of Earth, so too is the law of attraction. It states that like attracts like – whether you actually LIKE it or not. You send out a vibration and the Universe will send you a matching one in the form of experiences, relationships or situations in your life. Just like when I got lost in the hopes of ever uniting with my twin flame and slipped into negativity and a victim mindset, the Universe sent me more experiences and situations to feel negative and powerless about, keeping me trapped in that self-perpetuating cycle.

In order to escape this pattern you need to ACTIVELY top up the positive.

You need to keep shifting your focus into shoring up the positive when the negative rises up in order to escape the cycle of attracting what you don’t want (don’t worry, this months meditation does all that for you – more on that at the end).

 

The Universe Is ALWAYS Listening

There’s an unhealthy perspective within the spiritual community that you can tune in, be your higher spiritual self while you say your manifesting prayer and then revert back to your human self; complaining, beating yourself up, judging others or aligning with lower vibrational things. Not only is this incongruent with who we profess to be, but it doesn’t work that way.

The Universe is listening to more than your prayers. It is looking at your behaviours, your attitudes and the thoughts and feelings that you’re in throughout your day. You can’t give the Universe lip service. It sees ALL of you, and you have to be holistic in your efforts. If you only put out a positive intention for a few minutes in your day, but the rest is spent feeling disgruntled, ungrateful or bullied, what energy do you think is more powerful for the Universe to reflect?

 

You CAN’T Control It

No matter how much you try, you CANNOT force the Universe to grant your wishes by will.

You can’t trick the Universe, you can’t bargain with it, and you can’t pressure it into delivering either. In fact, the harder you push, the further away your desires become. It expresses an energy of frustration and lack, which results in the Universe returning situations and experiences which will cause those feelings, and that is the opposite of what you want.

I know how tough that is to hear, and I know how challenging it can be when you want something so much, but the good news is that the Universe DOES want to give you what you desire. It is a loyal servant. It takes you LITERALLY. It wont mix up the order or give you anything other than EXACTLY what you send out, like a mirror image. It is bound by the law of attraction and it is unapologetically accurate. Its not the Universe’s job to check that you expressed what you actually mean, or that you’ve thought about the possible effect of your desires manifestation. However, the good news is that it reflects such a matching vibration that it will help highlight any negativity that you might be unaware of, helping you to rectify it and adjust your focus for better results in future.

It WILL deliver what you ask for, just not necessarily in the way you expect. Set your intention and allow the Universe to bring it about in whichever way it sees is best for you. Allow it to SURPRISE and delight you.

 

You Get What You DESERVE (well, what you THINK you deserve)

This truth has a sting in the tail, and you need to be mindful of it, because just as the Universe will give you back exactly what you ask for, the Universe will only give you what you believe you DESERVE. Not what you genuinely deserve, but what you BELIEVE you deserve, and that can have a detrimental effect. If you think you’re no good and you don’t deserve to be happy then that’s the energy you are sending out and that’s what the Universe will deliver back to you – more reasons to prove that you’re no good and therefore why you definitely don’t deserve to be happy.

The Universe doesn’t take sides, it doesn’t have opinions or favourites, it doesn’t choose this person to be more deserving than that – its simply upholding the law. You really are your own Creator. No matter who you are, no matter what you want, the Universe cannot grant it unless you accept that you DESERVE good things.

You DESERVE to have your wishes fulfilled.

Even if you’ve made mistakes (we’re HUMAN, we ALL have), you need to accept those mistakes, assimilate the learning and forgive and accept yourself (using them as a marker of things that do not align with who you truly are, so that you don’t repeat them) and know that you are deserving of all good, just like the rest of us.

 

Break The Cycle

It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control the entire situation that my twin flame turned up in front of me. Honestly, it was like MAGIC. The moment I let it go, accepted that whatever will be will be, and that I deserved good things, Jay showed up in my life. And the craziest thing about it was that I already knew him. I was so busy searching for my manifestation and controlling the way that he would arrive that I actually MISSED him entirely the first time around. Isn’t that crazy? The fixation blinded me. I let it go and within two weeks my twin flame was sitting right there in front of me. THAT’S the power of breaking the cycle!

But I also know how cliche that sounds. ‘Just let it go and your manifestation will come about.’ It’s not as simplistic as that. You need to decide that you’ll be OK whether your manifestation arrives or not. Its in releasing the desperation and the strangle hold that we change the vibration we are sending out – controlling and forcing our will upon something radiates fear, lack, and need – so what do you think the Universe will send your way?

You can’t possibly manifest a good and wonderful thing from that mindset because it is not a like vibration to fear, lack and need. But, if you can choose to know that you DESERVE good things, that you will be just fine whether it turns up or not, and that you’re open to it turning up in whichever way is truly BEST for you (because the Universe knows that, you don’t) then, it will be magnetized to you irresistibly, simply because there is nothing negative to repel or obstruct its arrival. Voila!

 

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