Last Updated on December 20, 2024 by Kelly Ashley
4 Reasons Why Manifesting Hasn’t Worked For You Yet (and how to super charge it instead!)
So you’re ready to manifest your best life. You want good things, you believe in the law of attraction and you’re putting out positive vibes. Those are all a great start. But you can still veer off track if you’re not mindful. Despite your best intentions, sometimes manifesting just wont work no matter what you do, here’s why…
You Not Fully Charged
Those of us on the spiritual awakening pathway are pretty sensitive. We try really hard to stay aligned with the spiritual and to maintain a higher vibration, but we can be intensely affected by our interactions with others and it can have a detrimental effect, IF you don’t find a way to top yourself back up.
Think of your energy body like a battery. There is only so much energy inside that battery, and every interaction you have with anyone else will drain either a little or a lot of you. All day long we have conversations and exchanges of energy in person, on the phone, over social media etc. Every time we socialize it takes a little bit of our energy away. Its physically, mentally, emotionally and energetically depleting. You need to top it up and you need to keep your battery full. (Don’t worry, if you need help with that, this months meditation can help top you up by connecting to the sacred power of positivity and Source, at lightning cable speed – more on that in a moment).
You Don’t BELIEVE You Deserve It
If you don’t 100% believe that you deserve what it is you’re trying to manifest, it wont happen for you. Period.
And we all have reasons why we don’t feel we deserve. Perhaps its the mistakes you made in your past, maybe its doubts and regrets, something you are ashamed of, or someone once told you that you were no good – whatever the reason, they need to be acknowledged, accepted and cleared. All humans make mistakes (including light workers – we’re no exception). We are fallible. That is the nature of earth and this 3D reality. We incarnate here in order to learn, and boy do mistakes hold the highest learning potential there is. There is no greater teacher than pain. It is in admitting and accepting these ‘mistakes’ that we transcend them. We can clear them out.
You MUST Keep Yourself CLEAR
Think of your energy like a pure body of water. It can be contaminated by just 1 drop of poison. Just 1 drop and all the water is polluted. Undrinkable. Impure. That’s like us when negativity in any form enters our space. It muddies the waters. It dulls our clarity and sparkle. But just like water which is contaminated can be cleansed, we can be cleared. Water can be filtered. And when it is, you realize that you were never completely lost or undeserving, you just tipped the balance for a while. Its an unavoidable part of being human, so find a way to be at peace with it. You still need to play your 3D part (and you always will while here on earth) but, if you can connect to positivity in a world of polarities which are constantly draining and infecting your energy, you can use it as fuel to top yourself up so that you can still send that positive signal out – even when you’re off the charger.
And if those ugly doubts begin to rear their heads again, just see it like the pool of water. Don’t freak out. Just plug into the positive force of Source that is unconditionally loving and good and you can rebalance those scales to work in your favour – to be true to who you REALLY are as a being of light.
You’re Only Part-Time Positive
The power of positivity is epic, but you weaken the strength of it when you indulge in negative energy of any form. I know first hand just how hard that can be, especially when you’re struggling and everything feels so out of control, but there is one thing in life that you DO have control over, and that is your thoughts. You can choose to re-frame any situation. You can choose to focus on the positive. You can starve the negative energy of power by simply making a different choice. Its not easy, and it takes guts because it requires policing yourself any time you slip into any of the following:
- A negative mindset or attitude
- Negative self talk like ‘it’s never going to get any better,’ or ‘whats the point’
- Feeling like you don’t deserve good things
- Excuses
You need to think of these things like gluttony. You need to consider it an ugly indulgence to allow yourself to ruminate there. Its an uncomfortable dinner table with unhealthy foods that leave a bad taste in your mouth, and the company is even worse. Don’t hang out with those people. Don’t eat that food. Instead, catch yourself thinking that thought, or making the excuse for why you can’t have what you want and try this technique instead (its very light worker aligned).
How To Super Charge Your Manifesting Power
Accentuate the positive.
I mean, really boost that positive energy and bring it into everything you do. Wake up and tell yourself, ‘this is going to be a good day’ – even if it doesn’t feel like it. Speak to yourself in a happy, caring and uplifting tone. Show gratitude for your friends and loved ones. Appreciate the little joys of your day – the first hot sip of coffee, the sunshine glowing over the building as it rises in the sky, the birds tweeting as the world around you comes alive. We can live each day taking note of what is GOOD. What we’re thankful for, instead of what bothers us. And its not all that easy.
It doesn’t mean that you’ll never have a negative thought. The mind is an entity all of its own. You can’t control its natural inclination to think thoughts, but you CAN catch it the moment it spits out a harmful or limiting one and simply talk it round in your head. Literally speak to yourself like a loving, compassionate parent in a sweet, soothing tone. Tell yourself, ‘of course you are worth it darling, I love you no matter what. You’re good and you deserve all of these lovely things.’ Start using that beautiful compassion that you freely give to those around you and top up your OWN self worth. Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself the way you would lovingly treat others, the way you’d want the Universe to treat you, and THERE lies the key to sending out the vibration you wish to attract back into your life.
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* How To Harness The Law Of Attraction (& How I Manifested My Twin Flame)
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